Archive for December, 2009

Lay with a dog, you rise with fleas

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

Sometimes it takes years to see the full effects of something you have done. The “funny” thing is that is has been right in front of you all this time. The painful truth is that as you carelessly meander through life, you will eventually, as I did, get into places, things and animals you could have done without crossing paths.

All dressed up, looking and sounding just great, but a dog is a dog, regardless of attire, and the devil is the devil regardless of whether he or she comes with fork in hand or not. I knew I felt the fleas but couldn’t find them. They were itching for a long time but I just could not see them, I just knew that there was an infestation of them.

But now, I see them all over, they are itching, sucking my blood and just making their presence felt and at the expense of those I love, yeah, those I have cared for all this time. If I thought there was deception before, I was wrong because this dog/devil has an inherent problem and has now transferred it across borders, into my backyard.

This situation has to end, it has to be terminated and it seems that I have to put it back into God’s hands for Him to take care of the situation. I already know that the devil is a liar and a destroyer. I am already aware that when you lay with dogs that you rise with fleas but I could not imagine laying with a DAWG and SATAN at the same time could produce the havoc it has done.

Lesson learnt, and I will now place it in the real BOSS’ hands and let Him apply his flea repellent and then deal with the DAWG/SATAN.
He has shown he can do it already and I know He will do it again for me.

That is what you get when you are careless.

Always there when you need her

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

This is when you should realize you are valuable and this when I know what I have. As I evaluate the situation with the kid, and your offer to talk with him about the cursing, I wondered if it would not be best to ask you to be the lead in trying to repair the situation.

Then my “attorney” asks the same question in the form of a suggestion which confirmed the direction that should be taken.
He suggested that it might be better to let you take the lead role and I added that I would also ask that you keep me updated.
It was almost instant agreement and you granted our request immediately. Thanks a million for your support and cooperation in this our difficult time. You have made it clear how committed you are to our family and for that I am grateful.

You have always been there when I needed you and I have not always been the same for you. I know I have disappointed you but I hope that I will get the opportunity to make up for it. I hope that as we move forward that I will partner with you in all your endeavors and just be the supportive husband you expect to be by your side.

You have been truly the best wife and mother any man could wish for and I appreciate you more than ever. You are really the Princess and real Gold. You are invaluable and deserve my respect, honor and love.

You are easily the best thing that has ever happened to me, you are all I ever need. You make me feel safe knowing you are there for me and I look forward to doing the same for you.

Always loving you……

Disunity, Division – What a crash

Monday, December 28th, 2009

Just sitting here and thinking about the consequences of disunity and division. These produce secrecy, lies, hidden agendas, and a constant source of disruptions in our lives. There seems to be an endless amount of problems coming one after the other.

Somehow every problem ends up in one lap with the same blame.
We all should expect to have consequences for our actions but somehow all blame and responsibility seem to always point in the same direction. At what point will accountability be in the right place?

Getting tired of all the blame, getting tired of the pokerface lies, getting tired of a constant diet of hiding and sneaking of everyone and the constant excuse of it being “your fault”.

hmmmmm I wonder what next? There is always an excuse for everybody’s actions and it seems to be pointing here again.
When will this stop?

Probably a line is needed to be drawn and just move forward.
Easily said but it is probably the only way.
___________________________________________NEW START

What one Hug can do….keep Leaning on Jesus

Saturday, December 26th, 2009

Well, now I know what one hug can do, rest, peace, joy and love.
Seven hugs for one day make it perfection.
Now you know you love when one hug can make such a difference. Well, such an inner feeling that it was hard to contain. You know that your heart is there when you hug it and feel it beating and when you feel it really hug you back.

God is good and he will use any situation to get His plan accomplished, even if it means that it takes strange turns and behaviors. He is God and will do it so that He alone can get the glory. In the meanwhile He removes the obstacles, yes the people who are intent on stopping His plan for reconciliation.

The best part is that I did not have anything to do with accomplishing His plan. All I had to do was show up. Sometimes we have to remember that we must be ready in season and out of season, we have to be prepared for God to perform. So in order to be prepared, we have to be expecting Him to perform, we have to have faith and believe so as to expect.

It is clear that God wants what is best for em and will always have the last say, so lean on Him and keep leaning on Him.


Keep Leaning on the Lord

Careful of partial truths, they harm as much as lies

Friday, December 25th, 2009

Be careful of partial truths when receiving information.
Sometimes with good intentions folks give you some good information and at the same time give you some information that is their imagination and not necessarily the full facts.

So even from the best folks, being humans, I will be careful from now on as I sift through the information to find truth and not imagination.
Partial truths can mislead and be as harmful or even more harmful than lies.

Let commonsense and trust prevail.

Tired of Hypocrites and Marriage Destroyers, so LET GOD

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

I think I am now tired of the hypocrites and so called friends, and for that matter some family members including siblings.
What is funny is that the biggest hypocrites have their own marriage problems and their own unfaithfulness is rampant. In some cases, both spouses have the same issues of adultery and they are now advisers. Advisers for what? Breaking up marriages, or permanently damaging them?

Some of our eyes seem to be lock shut and cannot see even a shadow.
To make things worse, they call themselves Christians. Some are backbiters and scooping for news and reporting immediately. Some lie and swear on their life that they are being honest. Some would have you believe that they walk the talk, but I have no doubt that what is in the dark will come to light.

It is partially in the light at their favorite place of “holiness”, many of their co-laborers are aware, and God will expose it to the rest.

So, I will let God fix things and tear down the rest, they cannot touch this. God is now in charge and those who are using others for convenience will have to deal with God, who are steering others into darkness will have to face God, and who has been living hypocrites will have to face the big Boss.

Satan loses every time and my God wins, so Victory is always mine ever since. It will not change this time.

Note to Self:
Be careful of partial truths when receiving information.
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